Neither of us was allowed to make major decisions about schooling or permanent relocation without agreement or court approval.
It was not victory.
It was structure.
At that point, structure felt wonderful.
The financial side took longer.
Much longer than four hours in a Manhattan conference room.
Real life rarely gives you justice before dinner.
David had handled most of our finances during the marriage.
I had known what came into the household account and what bills were paid from it.
I had not known where everything else went.
Once formal financial disclosures began, questions appeared.
Large transfers.
Accounts I had never seen.
Payments linked to a condominium I had never heard of.
Miriam brought in a forensic accountant because the numbers did not match the income David had disclosed.
Weeks passed.
Then more records arrived.
A company account led to another account.
That account led to funds held outside



