belongs to me financially. I want access to my own life without you being able to shut a door or freeze a card whenever you’re angry. And I want us to stop using our daughter to fight with each other.”
His eyes flickered.
“You’re taking her from me.”
“No. I’m asking for a parenting arrangement that reflects what has actually happened.”
“I’m her father.”
“Yes.”
He seemed surprised by my answer.
I continued.
“You are her father. That is exactly why I need you to stop making this about winning.”
For once, David had nothing ready to say.
The final settlement did not destroy him.
I am glad it didn’t.
At one point, I would have found that disappointing.
By the time everything ended, destruction was not what I wanted.
The financial agreement required a full accounting of the marital assets. Money that had been improperly moved during the marriage



